All photos by Steph Wilson. I am grinding my pelvis in semicircles whilst l lie on the floor, imagining a red light is glowing out of my perineum. Around me twelve strangers moan while doing the same.
This is a shame, because most men could use some help in the bedroom, both when it comes to pleasing their partner and making their own orgasms stronger. Because you're not likely to get much advice from your friends, we spent some time chatting with sexologists and poring over the latest research to see what we could find. In the end, we came up with nine effective ways for men to take their orgasms to the next level.
Imagine that! All huff but no stuff. All yell and no gel.
Yeah, right. The reality is that male orgasm is not a guarantee. Have you struggled with orgasm for your entire life, or have there been recent changes?
Well, ta da! You can! All you have to do is learn how to have an orgasm without actually ejaculating.
The act of ejaculating is more or less guaranteed to be a messy one. That means you have to deal with a literal semen explosion pretty much every time you orgasm. Meaning, the question of ejaculation etiquette arises — where is it OK to ejaculate?
Most men boys? Maybe you were home sick one day from school and had the house to yourself. Or perhaps you and your significant other attempted a how-many-times-can-I-physically-cum-in-one-day-before-my-dick-falls-off marathon.
If you climax during sex or masturbation but don't produce any spermyou might be concerned that something is amiss. However, men can sometimes have an orgasm without ejaculating, also known as orgasmic anejaculation, and it is usually nothing to worry about. GP Dr Roger Henderson looks at the common causes for dry orgasms and when you should be concerned:.
Speaking as a male, I can't think of anything that remotely equals the thrill of an orgasm. What's weird is that, for all the attention it receives, the male orgasm doesn't get talked about in much detail despite the fact that there can be a huge difference in intensity from one to the next. My guess is that the most women don't know this.
Traditionally, media and society tend to portray sex as an experience between a cisgender man and woman, almost always involving vaginal or penetrative sex, but there are so many ways to have an orgasm without vaginal sex. In recent years, many of us have come to acknowledge that love and sex can exist between people with any gender or sexual identity, but there is still progress to be made. The bulk of articles published about sex involve the best sex positions for vaginal intercourse. Due of this, many articles about sex, which are meant to be fun and informative, end up coming across as quite assumptive and exclusive.